9.22.2014

Last Friday, I went to his place in the morning. It was raining really hard so I was all soaked up when I reached his condo. He then just let me borrowed his shirt and sweatshirt. We ate at the nearby carinderia and smoked for a while and had fun and shit and stuff before I went to work. After realizing that there was no work, I went back to his place and we ate champorado, and we played LoL for three hours. He brought me to Three Sisters, a famous barbecue shop, and had our dinner date there. Haha. After, we took a cab and I brought him to work.

Saturday came, and I was supposed to pick him up but I got all drunk the night before so I overslept. I went to his place again and slept with him after watching How to Tame a Dragon 2. It was a really nice sleep with his head on my arms, and my arms trying to hug him because it was really cold, and him hugging my arms that were around him. I was also able to meet all his sisters and his mom.

And so, our Sunday was a blast. After drinking the night before at Sev’s, then at Today x Future, and then at Lourna’s place, we headed to Antipolo. No sleep, yes. He finally got to meet my parents. After trying to sleep for some minutes, my mom told me that we would be going to a resort because it was his nephew’s Christening. We swam there, and drank beer, and smoked, and yes, my parents know that I smoke now. Haha. We were also owning the videoke place with the two of us just singing and dancing and the people around were having a good time with us. It was really a great time dancing and singing with James. Then after, we hopped back at the cold pool.

After reaching home, we bought hit the bed so hard. We were fast asleep that despite of us being really hungry, we skipped dinner. At around 12 in the midnight, I was awoken because I was surprised that he was awake at that time given that we didn’t had a good night sleep before. He was trying to hug me and kiss me because he told me that he missed doing that like how we normally do it in the condo. I gave him a warm power hug and we fell peacefully asleep again.

And yes, it was a lovely weekend.

Anonymous asked:
Hi kuya jake. Yung ex ko, 2 years nya akong niligawan tas 3 weeks lang ang itinagal ng relasyon namin. Sa loob ng 3 weeks na yun, minahal ko talaga sya. Sa totoo lang, nagbreak kami dahil sa akin. Kasi hindi ko na kinaya ang ugali nya. Tas ngayon meron na akong boyps ulit. 1 year na kame. Bumalik yung ex ko telling na mahal nya pa daw ako. Bakit ganun kuya Jake? Mahal na mahal ko boyfriend ko pero pag bumabalik ex ko, naffall pa rin ako sa kanya? :( Answer me please :'(

Hello! Sorry ngayon ko lang nabasa. Nako, unfair iyang ganiyan sa boyfriend mo ngayon. Kapag natapos na kayo noong noon, dapat move on na, let go na bago ka pumasok ulit kasi unfair talaga iyon sa boyfriend mo ngayon. Kahit pa sabihin nating napakarami pang baggage noong ex mo dahil sa iba’t ibang factor tulad ng mabilis na relasyon and shit, hindi parin sapat iyon na ijustify mo ang pagkahulog mo sa kaniya kahit may boyfriend ka na. :)

Anonymous asked:
Hihintaying hanapin ng pag-ibig o hahanapin ang pag-ibig?

Pwedeng both, pwedeng either depende sa pangangailangan. :) Pero I always think that love works both way - an active effort between two parties.

Anonymous asked:
Hi Jake, matanong ko lang, bakit wala ka nung Open Mic Night last saturday? :(

Hello! Nandoon ako. :) Tumula ako ng mga around 12:15 na. :) Magandang gabi!

So, last Friday, during the great wreck of the storm, I went pass through the flood to be able to go to Mich’s, my officemate, place because she said that we would be having a one-on-one drinking session. She opened her The Bar Martini and Absolute Vodka which we fucking drank. We talked about so many things. After a few rounds, we started mixing the two, and boom, there I came, knocked down. And take note, Mich even added Rhum to the last shot that I was not able to drink so that after I wake up again and try to drink it, I would be double dead. Good girl, Mich. And yeah, I woke up at ten with a super hangover.

9.19.2014

Because it is raining raining so hard, and we didn’t know that we don’t have any work today due to the hard rain, ayan, we’ll just play here at a computer shop somewhere kinda far from our office. Fuck, we searched for a gaming net shop for around an hour or so. What the heck! Orayt! Rock on, fight!

Anonymous asked:
boy lang or pwede girl? hahaha

Pwede kahit ano, kahit sino. :)

Anonymous asked:
do you still need a roommate? i'm interested.

Hi! Yes please. Contact me at 09068151638 :)

9.18.2014

No more sad songs. No more broken poetry. No more cold blankets and empty sheets of paper. No more movies for one, or beer gone warm. No more lonely trips. No more nights with just my naked skin dancing with the shadows of the room. No more are you available tonight because I need someone to hang on. No more dead silence. No more echoes in my head.

No more not because you are here now. It is more of no more because you give me reasons not to be in the same old pit again.

You are the breaking light on cool mornings. You are the may I ask you out on a date, and let’s sleep together tonight. You are hello, let’s have a breakfast. You are the ruler of the other half of the bed that I always trespass. You are the song I keep on playing on repeat. You are the constellation in the dark sky. You hold my hand and dance me around into our own rhythm. You are I want to wake up everyday, and live longer until we grow old together.

-No No; Zakk Habitan

Like a sinking ship,
you find refuge on the
bottom of every flesh,
in moments soon
to go, in times
you get lost
in the vastness
of the ocean.

You can’t find an anchor
to keep from drifting,
away, around,
but you still want to
sink in but this time,
you can’t find air
under the currents.

Just look at the shore,
I am here, and I am home,
I am the harbor to your
broken woods, and let
my lips repair the
torn flags that once
were waiving proudly.

-Sometimes, you can be a boat; Zakk Habitan

Anonymous asked:
Is it possible to be bestfriends with your ex?

I think so, yes. :)

Someone submitted something to me and she wanted to be anonymous:

Don’t include nalang my name po, thanks (personal issues/privacy) & sorry kung masyado mahaba. ^_____^

Hello, good afternoon po. :) Nagka boyfriend po ako (not legal) and I met him online. I’m a student and sya po ay nag wo-work na. We were friends, matagal na (online game) then one day nanligaw sya. Nag aalangan ako at first dahil that time, meron po syang girlfriend pero pilit nyang sinasabi na wala na talagang pag asa relasyon nila dahil nasa states yung babae at 6 months na silang walang maayos na communication. Pinatunayan din nya yun through printscreens of their conversations na hindi na talaga sila okay. Hanggang sa naging parang kami kahit hndi official.

Nagbreak kami dahil nagsasawa/napapagod na daw po sya sakin kasi lage ko nalang daw sya inaaway. Hindi ko naman po sya inaaway, pero magiging honest ako na nagtatampo ako sakanya kapag natutulugan po nya ako. Madaling araw hanggang morning po kasi work nya.

One night binuksan ko po facebook nya and nalaman kong nag meet sila nung ex nya (nakabalik na from states). Nung nabasa ko sa fb nya yun, wala na kami. That period of time eh sinusubukan kong ayusin kung anong nawala sa’min. Willing to change kung ano ayaw nya sa’kin. Pero todo iyak ko nalang nung nalaman kong naguusap na sila ulit. Instead of relasyon namin ang ayusin, yung ‘dun pa sa mas ex ang inayos.

Sa totoo lng, ang babaw ng reason ng pag break namin. Ayaw sa pagtatampo ko? Nawala na daw gusto nya dahil sa ganun na lage ako nagtatampo. Ano yun. Minahal ba talaga ako, kasi kung mahal nya ako, hindi naman ganun kabilis. 1 week lang ng break up bago sila nagkabalikan.

To be honest po, simula nun nawalan nako ng pake sa ibang tao. Halos ayaw ko na magtiwala. Natatakot akong pag hinayaan ko ulit na may lumapit sa’kin eh sasaktan at sasaktan lang din ako.

KASO, meron isang lalake na hindi nawala sa tabi ko. Kaibigan po namin sya nung lalakeng tinutukoy ko. 1 month sya ang kausap ko, hindi nya ko iniwan. Andyan lang sya, araw araw ako pinapatawa. Nung una, hindi ko talaga kaya tumawa. Gabi gabi nalang ako umiiyak pero lage lang nya ako pinagsasabihan, inaadvice-an at kung anu anong pampatawa na kaya nya. Hanggang today, nakakausap ko sya. Walang araw na di ko sya nakausap. Eventually, nagkakaroon ata ako ng feelings sakanya. Pero I know deep inside him, wala syang balak magkaroon ng more than friends na relationship sa’kin. Gusto ko lang po sana magpa advice, ano ba dapat ko gawin para hindi ako madevelop pa? Gusto ko sya lage kausap kaso yun ang nagiging daan para magustuhan ko sya. Habang nakakausap ko sya, lalo ko sya nakikilala, lalo ko nalalaman ang ugali nya, lalo ko nakikita kung anong klaseng lalake sya na talagang kagusto gusto ng isang babae. Natatakot lang ako na baka masira pa ang pagkakaibigan naming lalo na’t ramdam kong hindi sya interesado sa nararamdaman kong ‘yon towards him. Ano ba ‘yung tamang gawin sa ganitong sitwasyon po? :)

So, here’s the thing. I know that your context with your ex-bf is beyond my grasp to give you some sort of advice, but I want you to know that yes, I agree with you believing that the reason for the break-up is petty, and second, both ends have their own faults - it’s should have been more mature and understanding, as well as patient. Anyway, with the guy who is talking to you right now, all I can say is that you don’t have to be always in a romantic relationship. Sometimes, good friendship is more than enough. And yes, if you want to push that further, be sure that you are ready again and that he is not just a rebound of some sort. I hope the best for you, two. Good afternoon!

Anonymous asked:
I didn't like you before. I thought you were a little pretentious so I stayed away. That changed though. I like you now as a person because I think you've become more honest to yourself. I wish you well.

Hi! Thank you, and I wish you well, too. I hope to know you soon! :) And thanks, again. :)

Anonymous asked:
Ang haba po ng tinype ko, hindi kasya dito. :< Saan ko po pwede i-send? Hahaha

Hello! You can send it sa jakepullsthetrigger.tumblr.com/submit . Pero what is this about? :)

I don’t usually tell you thank yous and stuff, and sometimes, you would find it weird whenever I would stare at you and then smile. It is just I am thankful to have you. I am thankful that you are proud of me - you have introduced me to your close friends, your officemates, and even to your sister. I am thankful for all your effort - going to my place right after work, always being there for me, neglecting sleep and other things just because of me. I will always be thankful of those things. Thank you for holding my hands anywhere, and holding it tight as if you don’t want me to go. Thank you for kissing me without caring who could see us. You were never ashamed of me. Thank you for looking through me, for being with me through ups and downs, for making me your man. Thank you for sharing your life with me. I love you more than you will ever know.